Getting dumped can be a very hard thing to deal with, especially after putting so much of your love, time, and energy into making the relationship work. Well, you can pick yourself up and recover after being dumped and get your ex boyfriend or girlfriend back. This may be a challenging task for you, but it is definitely not impossible to do.
After getting dumped, you should start off by giving your ex about a week to themselves without calling or trying to contact them in any way to let things settle down and smooth over, especially if you were dumped under bad circumstances. After you have given the break up about a week, then you should try calling your ex just to make sure that they are doing okay and let them know that you are willing to sit and talk with them about anything and that despite your break up, you will still be there if they need you.
Whatever you do, do not let them know that you are hurting and that you want them back. Come off in conversation not as if you are trying to get them back, but as if you are just trying to be a good friend to them. Next you should try sending flowers to them one week, nothing fancy, just a couple of lilies or something, not roses, just to let them know that they are on your mind and you hope that they are doing well.
You can even invite your ex out for lunch or something simple so that you two can hang out and get to know each other all over again as friends first. At this point your ex should not be thinking that you are trying to get back with them, but just trying to be a really good ex boyfriend or girlfriend. In the course of trying to get your ex boyfriend or girlfriend back, you should be trying new things that you had not tried with them before or things that they always wanted you to do while you two were dating, but you did not do, all the while making it seem like you are just trying to be a good friend and better person to them than you were.
You should keep this routine of communicating with them on a friendly level for a little while so that your ex will start to realize what good of a person you truly are and develop those feelings that they had for you all over again. Since you will be showing your ex a totally new and different side of you than when you were dating, they will start thinking why they dumped you in the first place.
This should eventually lead to you two developing a whole new relationship together both on a friend and intimate level. When you two do get back together, your relationship should be a whole lot better than it was before.
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